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To have good relationships, you need to be able to “relate” to people. According to John Gottman, Ph.D. in his book, The Relationship Cure, there are 6 key things we can do to enhance our connections with others. Start a Relationships Notebook to track your progress on these six steps. Step One:
Be mindful of others. Pay attention to the emotional needs of others.
To do this you need to be fully present with them (not thinking of your
grocery list while they are talking) and you need to be aware of your
goals for your relationship with them. Is your goal to be the powerful
or controlling one? Or is your goal emotional connection? In your “Relationships”
Notebook, each day make a page for “Emotional Moments”. These
are times when you connected on an emotional level with another person.
It could be your wife, daughter, coworker, or anyone else you have a relationship
with. Try to have at least 3 per day. After a while, you will notice that
it starts to come naturally and your own level of emotional satisfaction
with your relationships will grow.
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